Guys with bikes...
Thursday, May 11, 2006
I don't really trust guys with bikes. I said "
don't really" because I've got some great trustworthy guy friends with bikes. But unfortunately, I do have an even large number of guy friends with bikes whom I
can't trust.
Let's talk about those whom I
can't trust first.
A couple of them actually confessed that having a bike is easier for them to "
kacip pompuan". And to make things easier for them, they usually go for the girls who are
still schooling because they say, this girls look at them as "
idols" and the friends of the girls, upon seeing the girl
kena ferry to and from school on a bike will envy the girl and it would be like instant popularity for the girl. This especially applies if the guy is from a certain bike design, ie. equivalent to "
main baju".
Another case would be
married/engaged/attached guys with bikes who claims they are
still single. This is a personal experience though. Heh. Well, at that point, he was engaged to be married in December last year. When I first got to know him, I did ask whether he's attached and he said he is not. So I continued being friends with him la. It was one month after we got into a relationship with him was when I came across the friendster account of his significant other. How I came across the profile was a very coincidental process and I shall not elaborate it here. And the best part was, when I asked him about it, then he confessed about being engaged! I personally feel like throwing the helmet at him, hoping that his head will break or whatever. But instead I told him to f*** off. I really pitied the girl who was with him. He's married now.
Skarang dah kahwin pun masih nak menggatal. When I was using my old number, still got the cheek to message me and tell me he miss me and stuff.
Disgusting. So changed my number and then he chatted with me on MSN even after I deleted him from my list.
Another example would be guys with bikes who gets to know girls with only one intention in mind. To get the girls to ride their bike
AND them. It's like a no strings attached. I got to know this guy who was like that. Know him from
Anak Melayu la. When time
nak jumpa, "
I ambik you dari rumah you la. Then kita gi pangkeng. No strings attached, I promise". I was like, "And I pormise you that after this, I'll be deleting your number from my handphone and I promise I won't want to hear from you again after this message..".
Member terus diam seh.
My sister would be another living example. With her ex. They were together for like God knows how long and she paid for his bike. His belardee KTM bike. All the servicing, paintwork or whatever it was paid for by my sister. Personally I felt it was stupid of her and I told her so which resulted in her not talking to me till she broke up with him. And after they broke up, another bomb dropped on her. My family and I were like doing last minute packing for our family holiday to
Pulau Perhentian when she received a letter, from a lawyer stating that the ex-boyfriend had not been paying for the bike. So she had to pay for whatever was owed by that cow when we got back to Singapore a week later.
Kalau tak confirm
kena declare bankrupt. Can't remember the exact amount but I told her if she gave me that amount of cash instead of paying for the bike that she don't even ride on anymore, I could pay for the whole trip myself and still have extra for some extra shopping.
Nasib baik our stay at the resort in
Pulau Perhentian was free because it was my Mom's cousin's resort.
Some examples of why I don't really trust guys with bikes. Again I would like to say that I am not generalising guys. There are some guys with bikes who are nice fellas. People like
Imran,
Hafiizh and the
4PM volunteers. Couples with bikes who are going strong like
Wati & Dino,
Nana & Amin,
Kak Su & hubby. And I don't really have anything against guys with bikes. Just the trusting part.
*
Smiles...*
